Pregnant, bless or nightmare?

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I know when people heard about pregnancy, what come next can be different reactions. It can be happy, shock or nervous, sad and anger. It is all can happen because it has different situations. But for myself and maybe for most of women, pregnancy is a bless. No need spesific reasons to explain that is a bless. We have heart, we just can feel it, it is natural feeling that is given by God. As simple as that. 

Happy, that will be felt if she thinks that pregnancy is a bless. Usually when u think it is a bless means your condition so ready to have a baby. Maybe you are married and longing for a child or you are old enough to have a baby, or you just think that you want that baby because maybe you think that baby will become minnie you but on different version. The baby can be a bless for most people, for a woman, for a couple, for husband and wife, or even for a family that really want the baby in their family, especially for the pregnant woman. If the pregnant woman already feels that is a bless, then it will become easier to do the proccess until giving birth is come. Why it will become easier, because the pregnant woman will start to find out how to do and to pass the procces with some knowledge, she will read, ask to someone or even she will go to someone expert on it, the obstetricians. She will be very careful in everything after she knows that she is pregnant. She will take care her pregnancy. She will find out what she is going to face on pregnancy and giving birth things. Because the pregnant woman must know all the consequences of doing gregnancy and giving birth. Even maybe, she will sacrifice everything for all the process that she must going through. Why?

Because the pregnant woman will get major things to pass the proccess until giving birth is come.  She will get major changes to her body and her life, she will also have sensitive conditions or feelings and so many more will come, things that even not easy to feel, to do and to pass. She will try to make sure that pregnancy will going good for her and the baby. If she feels happy with her pregnancy, as a normal human being, she will try to make sure that she and the baby will be fine. She will run all the proccess happily and all the proccess will go normal without any heavy problems. Of course that is a hope for all pregnancy woman. Happy and healthy for mom and the baby at last.

Shock and nervous, Those are feelings that might be come after u know that you are pregnant. Shock and nervous, their can be caused by unready conditions. Many things can that, maybe you are too young to become a mother, you are not married yet, you don’t expect near pregnancy, you are pregnant while you are still doing your study, you are pregnant while you are having your good carrier, you are to afraid to become a mother or you are to afraid of giving birth, or maybe your partner doesn’t want a child and so many other reasons. Shock and nervous are normal feeling when it happens. Nervous comes if you don’t know a lot about  pregnancy or giving birth. That is why, again i have to tell that try to calm down yourself, take some smart steps wisely and not in hurry. Talk to someone that you can trust and know u well, maybe your parent, your brother or sister, but more important is to your partner, the father of your baby. If all those things are happening to you, first thing first don’t be panic, take your time to think it carefuly, or maybe you have to talk to someone who is trustworthy and close to you. Tell everything honestly, let your feeling out and ask him/her to discuss or maybe ask for some good advices. Shock and nervous are very normal feelings, so just take steps smartly, wisely and not in hurry. Just remember onething important tha baby is innocent.

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